I was just perusing the Crate and barrel website looking at items to add, and not add, to our blossoming registry. I was checking out two different kinds of cocktail shakers, one "hammered," and one smooth, and thinking, "Goddamnit how do I CHOOSE?" Then I remembered that we are picking out things, at random, for people to buy for us when, I mean, really, we've already got stuff, but we just want nicer stuff. That takes the stress away, when you put it that way. Furthermore, we got our first wedding present last night. Awesome mixing bowls, and in the excitement of first-wedding-present bliss, J put one right on his head. Like a hat. It is important to remember that life is so fun.