I was looking up a friend's registry information online yesterday when very suddenly I realized I'd been missing out these past few months. Sure, we've been wedding planning. But wedding obsessing? I haven't quite gotten into that yet. Until yesterday. Evidence #1: Justin and Cara's Wedding Webpage!

I realized there are colors to get into with awful, affected names like "mango" and "honey" designed so that you don't know what the hell color you are even talking about. There are chatrooms! And of course my favorite - the wedding webpage where I can make sure that everyone, even randoms just passing by, know that J and I are getting married. You'll notice that in the wedding attendants section I've completely left the names of the groomsmen off. That's because when I got to that section, my energy had begun to give way to a lethargy and lack of creativity and I started to wonder if this is what the priest meant when he said planning a big, extravagant wedding, putting all your energy into it and nothing else - is "sinful."